Primers

First Court Appearance — What to Expect & How to Present Yourself

This page is part of the Men Too Movement’s education series. It’s general information, not legal advice. Rules vary by court and state.

Big Picture

Court moves quickly. Cases are called in a list; you’ll have only a few minutes.
Lead with your ask. Be clear about the relief you’re seeking.
Preparation beats memory: bring a clean packet, tabbed exhibits, and notes.

Quick Wins

Arrive 30–45 minutes early; silence your phone.
Put your one‑page case summary on top with your ask in the first paragraph.
Bring 3 copies of your packet (court, other party, you) with a simple index.
When you speak: address the judge as “Your Honor,” then point to your tab.

Core Steps

Check in with the clerk/bailiff; confirm your case is on the docket.
When called, state your ask in one sentence.
Hand up your packet: “Your Honor, Exhibit A is the key document.”
Answer the judge’s questions first; then finish your point.
Get the written order or confirm when it will post; calendar next steps.

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Disclaimer: This is general education for a Virginia‑leaning audience, offered by Men Too Movement. It is not legal advice and doesn’t create an attorney‑client relationship. Laws and court practices change. Talk to a licensed lawyer about your case.